Kids are more important to parents; more than their own lives. That’s why we would do anything to keep our kids happy and healthy. We have but one life, and we should try to live it to the fullest without any regrets. We should try to stay and keep our loved ones happy. These days will not return ever again and unnecessary tensions and responsibilities only make the lives of our children difficult. Here are a few tips to keep your kids happy.
Be Happy Yourself
You have to be happy yourself if you want to share it with others. You may not notice it, but kids notice when their parents are tense. You should not make them worry about you. Instead, you should be cheerful and shouldn’t share your problems with them.
Once they grow up and mature, they will automatically start to share your problems with you, and then they will work to make your life happier.
Make Them Tasty Meals
Food is one of the best joys of life, and you should utilize it to the fullest. Learn to cook yourself and make new dishes for your kids every day.
Cooking is not as difficult as most people think. It does not take more than a month to become a very good cook with experience.
Even if you are a good cook, you would still find yourself wondering what to cook. This happens to all parents every day. To make this problem a little easier, here are some good dinner ideas you can cook for your kids.
Don’t Expect Perfection
Kids also do many things every day even if they are not very important to you. They have to study and play games. Some parents are too keen on trying to raise perfect kids.
You just cannot raise perfect children who are good at everything. You will end up destroying their childhood in the process.
That’s why you should only focus on their effort and appreciate it instead of putting pressure on them. They are kids, and they will learn things as they grow up. Besides, everyone has their own superpowers, so you can’t expect to master something that they are not built for.
Encourage Every Little Thing
As a parent, it’s your job to make sure your kids keep doing the things they have started. One loses when he gives up. If you don’t want to raise quitters who live in an inferiority complex, you should encourage every little thing about children.
When they start doing something, cheer them on without putting any pressure on them. The goal should be to make them feel that they are doing it on their own will, they are doing a great job, and you are proud of them.
Give Them Easy Chores
You might wonder how doing chores could make your kids happy. Most children hate doing work. Although it is somewhat true, that’s not how all kids think.
Giving kids tasks makes them feel empowered.
Give them some chores that they won’t hate, and, if possible, enjoy doing it. Completing the job will give them a sense of achievement and make them feel good about themselves.
Plan Outings
Most kids love going out. You should often make outing plans. There are many things you can do with them that are not expensive.
If they like movies, go watch the latest movie. Eat out, go camping, and play paintball.
This is a great practice to strengthen the relationship with your kids.
Throw a Doll’s Birthday Party
This only works for daughters, as you can guess. However, many boys also like it in some cases.
If they have dolls, arrange little birthday parties for the dolls and invite the people in your home. Have your kids do the planning and all birthday work.
You will see them taking responsibility and actually enjoying the work.
Camp Out in Garden or Living Room
So, you can’t keep going out into the woods with your kids.
It’s time-consuming, difficult, and also expensive. Besides, it’s unlikely that you will get enough holidays from your job and kids also can’t take days off school.
Do the same camping in the garden of your house. If you don’t have a garden, camp in the living room. Kids really enjoy this type of camping too. Most little kids can’t differentiate between real camping and this one.
Start a Family Music Band
If your kids are into music, you can start a family band of your own. Include all your kids and family members. If possible, both parents should be a part of it.
To keep motivated and practicing with you, get a gig for a birthday in the family. It could be the birthday of one of your own kids where you will have guests. Knowing that they have to perform in front of the guests will keep them working happily.
Praises about their performance from other family members will make their week, if not month.
Play Pretending Games
Do you know the game parents play where you pretend to be some character? Kids love those games.
Here is an example, you could be a customer, and your kid could be the host.
Likewise, you could be a patient, and your kid will be the doctor. There are many such stories and games you can follow.
Do Some Finger Painting
Finger painting is easy and fun. Get your kids to put their hands in color and be creative on the white chart.
It will show you if your kids have a knack for art. You can hang their paintings in the home and tell every guest who painted them.
Plant Some Flower Seeds
If you have space, you should get some seeds for good flowers.
Plant them in the garden and then see your kid’s curiosity. They will be really happy to see when the plant will start to grow.
Teach Them to Cook Their Favorite Dish
They love to eat; make them a part of the experience of cooking. They will be into learning it because it’s their favorite dish. You will also find out if they want to be a cook in the future. Besides, they will learn an important skill.
The best thing my hubby and I did for our kids was to have dinner together just about every night. I firmly believe that is what defined their childhood and assisted in creating well adjusted, independent adults. =)
I love this topic. Thanks for sharing this.
You are so on point with this tips, kids love it when you encourage those little things.
Parents being happy is key. And not expecting perfection is so important. Less stress in our lives when we work on being happy.
I need to start watching Running Man with my teenage boy again. This used to be our bonding but he’s been swept up with school work and I with work.
Oh I love this, will keep these in mind for my nephew.
Wow! These are really amazing tips for all the parents out there 🙂 Loved reading this post!
Too bad I dont have small kids now. But, I am so proud that I did some of the things you listed in this post.
I wish I could do all these parenting tips you mentioned in this post.